Some Resources For Polyamory
(and Other Relationships)

 

Internet Resources:

 

General Information:

http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html – Polyamory: What? Why? How?: An EXCELLENT “primer” on polyamory.

 

http://www.polyamory.org – home page for the Usenet newsgroup alt.polyamory, this page also has a lot of information about other internet resources, including FAQs, mailing lists, books, movies, etc.

 

http://www.aserve.com/holly/culturefaq.html – Holly Wilper’s Alt.polyamory FAQ Culture Supplement. Books, movies, music and comic books dealing with polyamory. Rating system for degree of poly content and -friendliness for the books, and very brief synopsis for movies.

 

Support Groups/General Info:

http://poly.polyamory.org/mailman/listinfo/sfbay-poly – Local discussion and event lists.

 

http://www.livejournal.com – LJ Communities for discussion of poly issues: Polyamory, polyamorous, sfpoly, compersion, mono_poly, poly_marriage, ethical_sluts, polyfi, others.

 

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/cpnpolymono/ – Discussion/support group for polyamorous partners in poly-mono pairings.

Podcasts:

(about polyamory, love, and sacred sexuality)

 

http://polyweekly.libsyn.com/ – The longest-running and most listened-to poly podcast to date, host CunningMinx provides a lively show on “Responsible non-monogamy from a kink-friendly, pansexual point of view.”

 

http://alovemovement.libsyn.com/ – Minister Chuck Smoot talks about love, life, “leather,” race, relationships and religion.

 

http://www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/tantra-kama-sutra/tantra-kama-sutra-show.html – Relationship coach and author Francesca Gentille “explores the writing, spiritual practices and insights of the most famous, infamous, and rarely interviewed Sacred Sexuality experts today.”

 

Agreements and Safer Sex:

http://www.weirdness.org/family/agreements/index.html – Akien and Dawn’s Relationship Agreements.  These are OUR Agreements (and always under revision!), and won’t necessarily be right for YOU.  There is a link to our Safer Sex agreements at the bottom.

 

http://www.sfsi.org/ – San Francisco Sex Information. Clearing house for safer sex information and training. Check here for other good links, too.

 

http://www.plannedparenthood.org – Click on Find a Center under Health Services to find a location for testing.

 

http://berkeleyfreeclinic.org/ – Free, anonymous HIV and STD tests.  Note that women can only get HIV testing here.  Men can get a fuller range of STD tests.  Peer counseling.

 

http://www.womenschoiceclinic.org/ – Women’s Health services, including Free STI testing for those who qualify, by appointment.

 

http://www.cchealth.org/services/centers_clinics/by_service.php – Low-cost or free testing for both men and women.

 

http://www.calpep.org/ – HIV/AIDS prevention and resources. Free HIV testing during drop-in clinic, Wed. 9-4:30. Choice of 20 min. or 2 week results window.

 

Books:

(alphabetically by author)

 

Anapol, Deborah M. – Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits, IntiNet Resource Center 1997

 

Chapman, Gary – The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate, Northfield Publishing, 1992

 

Easton, Dossie and Liszt, Catherine – The Ethical Slut, Greenery Press 1997

 

Gottman, John M. and Silver, NanThe Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert, Three Rivers Press, 2000

 

Kramer, Matt -- Conversations before a Marriage, InfoBooks 1999

 

McGarey, Robert – Poly Communication Survival Kit: The Essential Tools for Building and Enhancing Relationships, The Human Potential Center, 2001

 

Rosenberg, MarshallNonviolent Communication: A Language of Compassion, PuddleDancer Press, 1999

 

Taylor, Patricia Huntington – The Enchantment of Opposites: How to Create Great Relationships, Traveling Artists, 1997

 

West, Celeste – Lesbian Polyfidelity, Booklegger Publishing, 1996

 

Conferences & Magazine:

Loving More®  http://lovemore.com/.  Sponsors of the “Poly Living” conference in Philadeliphia, Feb. 1-3, 2008. West coast retreat July 25-27, 2008; East coast retreat Sept. 5-7, 2008. Also chat rooms, articles, personals, and a magazine with articles and information of specific interest to poly-folk.

 

World Polyamory Association – http://www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com/.

 

 

 

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